| Location | Slough |
| Age | 24 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 10/10/1976 |
| Date of Death | 01/10/2001 |
| Visitors | 1,565 since 28/09/2008 |
| Creator |
Well Ian was my brother he was 24 years old when he sadley passed away on the 1/10/01. Well Ian was
a very kind funny person he was always there 4 me when i needed a hug or when i was ill he loved
looking after me i went every with him. Ian was a lovely brother to me he was the best i could ever
had ask for he meant the world to me i could not of ask for a better brother then him.
This is hows Ian passed away:It was September 28 2001 i just finshed dancing and my mum and my
grandad come to pick me up, there said we are going in to town to do some some shopping i said ok
then.
That is when i saw my big brother Ian then 24 going in to the phone shop i ran up to him and gave
him a cuddle i said what time u comming home so me and you can play on play station? We always used
to play on play station, he said i be home later to night i said ok, then my mum said to him be care
full to day son in town there is a lot of trobbie he said ok mum i will.
When i got home i went out side to play with my mates, about 7.30pm my mum called me in for dinner
and i had bath, i had my bath then about 8.15pm the phone rang i pick up as my mum was cooking my
dinner and my dad dinner it was Paul one of Ian best mates he sounded really upset he said is you
mum there Sian? I said yeah my mum went on the phone and what ever Paul said to her my mum face was
pale when she come of the phone my dad and i said what wrong, and she said Ian been in a bad
acciedent my heart skiped a beat she phoned my grandad to take us to the hospital well my grandad
was staight over he lives 7 miles away but he was at are in about 10 mins.
When we got to the hosiptali knew something was really wrong as they put as in to the family room
and that is when i saw Paul standing there with red eyes from crying and coved in blood i said why
have you got blood over you? He said that is from Ian i freaked when he said that. I said what
happend to him? He said he got knocked of his push bike and is badly hurt.
I ran out side and i had Ian's mobile in my hand i rang Ryan which was Ian other best mate i told
him to get to the hosiptal ASAP he said why and i told him why then he hang up, within minutes he
was there with his other mate Gail as soon as i saw him i ran up to him crying he picked me up and
told me every thing was going to be all right.
Then at midnight Ian was tranfured to ICU Ryan picked me up and tured me round so i would not see
the state Ian was in i fell a in Ryan arms i woke up about 3.30am in ITU and i thougt it had all
been a dream but i was so wrong i wounder where every one was so i shouted Ryan then he come thro
the doors he said you are comming back to gail to get some proper sleep so i did.
The next day i woke up and thought Ian would be ok so when we got to the hosiptal that is when i
know that some thing was really bad as lots of are family had tured up by now there were all round
Ian bedside as soon as i saw Ian laying there beeping mechines round i know it was serious i tryed
not to cry and then when the night came i went back to my mum best mate Lyn.
The next day October 1st i went back up to the hosiptal and some thing told me that there was
something bad had happend one thing i saw was Ryan on the chair when red eyes he said Sian come hear
i need to tell you some thing he took me to a side room and told me that Ian was Brain dead and the
doctors cant do nothing for him, at first it did not hit me then suddley i bust in to tears my
brother gone my one and only brother gone at a young age.
A hour later at 11am the doctor come round and said it is time to say good bye and turn the life
support mechine of i went in there with Ryan Ian was just layin there he looked as if he was
sleeping then he chest rose for the last time.
We all left the hosptal in silence i could not quite get my head round it only a couple of days ago
i was speaking to him and now he was gone and never comming back, i ran staight up stairs in to Ian
room and went on the bed and cryed that is when Ryan come up stairs and said i am hear for you.
A few days later we went to say the last good bye ever in the chapel of rest i walked in there with
Ryan and saw Ian laying there i put his neck lese what i bought him back from spain in the coffin i
said good bye to him i did not kiss him good bye i was so scared to.
On the 10th October was his birthday he died 9 days before his birthday that day past in a blur
On the 16th October we burried him i read a poeam out over 300 people tured up then Ryan come up to
me and said i will look after you as a promise to Ian.
It be 7 years on the 1st of October he was taked from my heart i love him so much i really wish he
was till hear to day and and i really wanted him 2 see my 18. but i know he was waching my 18 from
heaven.
Love you so much IAN XXXXX
R..I..P Ian You will never be forgoton not a day gpes past that i dont think about you love you so
much xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Ian i am so sori that i cry sum tmes xxxxxxxxx
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Is a gift to you above..
With it's wings of many colours
Made with love
You fly high..
Just like this beautiful butterfly
You fly past the stars..
And up to the moon
Oh why sweet angel..
Was you gone too soon?
You spread your wings..
Just like this beautiful butterfly
Go fly through the clouds
And up to the sky
With not a care..
You fly free
And if you can..
Fly home to me
copyright� Jackie Thomas 22/07/09.
Hello bro
Hello bro
Soory ave nt been on hear as much as i can but i av nt been myself soz bro.
Nt a day goes pass when i dnt think bout u, i miss u so much i love u soo much 2, sori i aint cum up the vrem eitha 2 ave a chat 2 u but i i will do bro.
Bro i betta go as i gt 2 b up early in the morin
love u sooo much
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When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you.
And each time that you think of me
I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand.
If we could bring you back again,
For one more hour or day,
We’d express all our unspoken love;
We’d have countless things to say.
If we could bring you back again,
We’d say we treasured you,
And that your presence in our lives
Meant more than we ever knew.
If we could bring you back again,
To tell you what we should,
You’d know how much we miss you now,
And if we could, we would.
Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part.
To help us feel we're with them still
And soothe a grieving heart.
Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind.
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.
As New Year approaches
It seems harder this time of year
We miss you so much more
The only thing that gets us through
Are the memories of before
So here's a card just for you
To show how much we care
I know your waiting with the angels
One day I'll see you there.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes gifts and kind words they have left on Christopher’s website I appreciate every single one.
I would also like to wish you all A Happy New Year & my best wishes for 2009.
Angela X
New Years Day
HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND EVERYONE
Our Lives changed, the very moment you passed away.
We couldn't stop it; there was nothing we could say.
You've touched our lives so deeply to a point you will never know,
We try to think about you when we are feeling down and low.
Sometimes when our day gets hard we will think about your beautiful smile
And if we listen hard enough we will hear your voice after a while.
It's you who give us a reason to go on with our day,
And now if we want to see you we'll bow our heads and pray.
We catch ourselves looking for you still, in the halls and at the front door,
But when we call your name there is no reply any more!
We never thought a day would come where we would be apart,
God has you in his keepings, we have you in our hearts.
Life will go on, but never will be the same,
Your beautiful smile is gone, but it will always remain.
You're our angel from up above.
You'll always be missed, but most importantly... loved.
Just one more minute, God, is all we ask- why can't you give them back;
It seems like such a simple task. We guess people are right when they say God only takes the best,
We know enough now that you're peacefully at rest.
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You can shed tears that they are gone,
Or you can smile because they lived,
You can close your eyes and pray that they will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that they have left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see them
Or you can be full of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember them and only that they are gone
Or you can cherish the memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what they would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
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I'm writing this from heaven, where I dwell with God above.
Where there's no more tears or sadness, there's just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy because I am out of sight
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
And I will stay beside you, every day, week and year
And when you're sad I'll still be there to wipe away your tears.
When you think of my life on earth and all those living years
Because your only human their bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry it does relieve the pain
Remember there wouldn't be flowers unless we first had rain.
I wish I could tell you of all that God has planned
But even if I were able to, you wouldn't understand.
When your going down the street and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps and only half a step behind.
And if you feel a gentle breeze or wind upon your face
Remember it's only me with a loving and soft embrace.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
MERRY CHRISTMAS ..
It's a wonderful feeling
Made all the more specials because
I know this is just the beginning
Of the understanding and
Trust we will share, for with the time.
Sometimes I feel like a flower, opening up beneath
The golden warmth of your love,
Responding to the sunshine
That the very sight of you brings
I want to know you completely…
I want to give all of myself to you.
Holding nothing back
Except for the mystery that
Allows us to be separate people~
Joined by one beautiful love.
Merry Christmas with all my love.
WITH LOVE SURINA AND ANGEL MANINDER XX
With love Surina x
A rose once grew
where all could see,
sheltered beside
a garden wall,
And as the days passed
swiftly by,
it spread its branches, straight and tall...
One day, a beam of light
shone through
a crevice that had
opened wide ~
The rose bent gently
toward its warmth
then passed beyond
to the other side
Now, you who deeply
feel its loss,
be comforted ~ the rose blooms there ~
its beauty even greater now,
nurtured by
God's own loving care.
R.I.P. Ian
rest in peace amongst the angels and saints in heaven. just sleep tight and wait to be rescued and lifted into the stairs of heaven.
we all miss you.
your sister misses you so much and she loves you so much no one could ever replace you.
have a nice long sleep my darling.
love from
bethany and your sister sian.
xxxxxxxxxx
Travelling down the memory lane..
Travelling down the memory lane
is not all black 'n white.
Travelling down the memory lane
is not all lacking light.
Travelling down the memory lane
is not eye filled with tears.
Travelling down the memory lane
brings fresh and soothing air.
Travelling down the memory lane
is college, fun and friend.
Travelling down the memory lane
is full of curves and bends.
Travelling down the memory lane
is a test of time and mind
Travelling down the memory lane
is a joy of it's kind.
Love as always surina xx
HOLD ON
Hold on to what is good even if it is a handful of earth,
Hold on to what you believe even if it is a tree that stands by itself,
Hold on to what you must do even if it is a long way from now,
Hold on to life even when it is easier letting go,
Hold on to my hand even when I have gone away from you.
xxxx
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You left us quietly,
Your thoughts unknown,
But left us a memory,
We are proud to own;
So treasure them Lord,
In Your garden of rest,
For when on earth,
They were the very best.
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
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